"The
greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter
his life by altering his attitudes." William James
"Go
confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've
imagined. As you simplify your life, the law of the universe will be
simpler." H.D. Thoreau
"...perhaps
there is a pattern set up in the heavens for one who desires to see
it, and having seen it, to find
one in
himself." Plato
"A man of
genius makes no mistakes. His errors are volitional and are the
portals of discovery."
James Joyce
Choice
Is it
possible that you do not have freedom of choice?
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What would happen if you could make a decision in the moment?
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What if you had freedom to choose anything you want? Do you know
what that would be?
Bottom Line: Cardell will
help you gain the freedom to make your own
choices that are not driven by unconscious scripts or past
environmental programming.
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In-depth
information about Choice below
After gaining awareness
about what isn't working for you and what it is that you truly
want to create in your life, and becoming aware that you hold the
power within you, it is time to make some choices. The choices you
make determine what you get. Making a choice and having intention
about it will make you absolutely unstoppable.
What kind of Choices?
Outcome - Benefits
Skills you will take home
Choices about relationships -
your health
Your job - your lack of money - how do you
want to feel? Happy or sad, it's your choice
Do you want to remain a victim or take your power back
The list is endless and it is very personal, the choice
is completely up to you
Choosing what you
want is an incredibly empowering position to be in
Better
job, better health, better bank account, better
relationships, you name it - You can have anything you want
When you are in the driver's seat you have total control
for creating your life
Being in charge of your own life is FUN!
You will know how to make smart choices
based on your inner power and how to have intention about
them to create what you want
You will be able to know
immediately when you are being proactive or reactive and
adjust.
You will be able to consciously choose what you want,
instead of being kicked around and controlled by old
disempowering beliefs, that you may not even be aware of
now.
Are you
Proactive or Reactive?
As you become aware, you
can choose. Your choices in life determine what you get. Are you a
proactive person who creates what
you want, or are you reactive, giving your power away to every Tom,
Dick, or Mary? Awareness gives you choice, and choice is your first
step toward making changes in your life.
Are you totally unaware?
Are you reactive, a victim? If you are, you have no choices because
someone or something else is controlling you. The power is outside
of you. ◄
Are you aware? Are you
Proactive? If you are, then you have power and choice ►
You have the Freedom
to Choose - Act or React
Reactive People
Are
powerless
Take
little responsibility for their feelings
Have
given their power away
Play in
to dramas
Judge the
players relentlessly
Feel like
helpless pawns
Need to
stay in pain, their primary addiction
Think
they are forged from without
Base
their lives on uncontrollable circumstances
Are stuck
in Dualism
Always
blame others, especially God (God's will)
Live in
the past - cannot create their desired future
Feel very
comfortable in their role, they chose it
Live by
"shoulds" - I should, you should, etc.
We attract to us what we feel
Victims continue to perpetuate
their sense of powerlessness
They blame, they get blamed
Moving out of "victim-hood" is like
coming home, and being
introduced to yourself for the first
time
Proactive People
Choose what
is desired, for the joy of it
Allow,
without judgment
Are always
in control
Are in the
flow of life
Take
responsibility for themselves
Are owned by
no one, no place, no thing
Know they
create it all - minute to minute
Understand
maneuvers, because they have maneuvered
Choose calm
where there is chaos
Ignore
dramas
Do not give
themselves away to the world
Blame no one
and no thing for anything
Always move
on without regret
Never cop
out to God's will or fate or luck
Know their
divinity and work daily to magnify that feeling
The Process of Choice
You are the
head honcho in your life. You get to make all the
decisions, all the choices. If you choose to remain a
victim, that is your choice. Because you are the boss,
you can choose to become the Master of your life.
Choosing is
about rewriting the Neuro-Scripts, it is about making
decisions, it is about intention. When you make a
decision and have intention about it, nothing can stop
it. You can choose to change your life. If you think you
can't, it is because you have a vested interest in
staying stuck right where you are. You may not realize
it consciously. Most of what directs our lives is
totally unconscious.
Your Personality, (belief, paradigms, internal
representations or scripts) direct now. Until you are
aware of these Neuro maps, your unconscious directs your
behavior and creates your circumstances and reality.
Again, the Neuro scientists say that our unconscious
directs: What you feel, what you think, how you act and
react, the decisions you make, what you pay attention
to, who you love and who you hate, how you interpret the
world and events around us.
Your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs create your body,
environment and circumstances,
which is the nature of your reality. 98% of
behavior is stimulus response until
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